Comments on: More On Mastering Emotions

By: SUNNY

SUNNY — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 11:57:02 +0000

your article give only half information, it is not helpful because ,nlp master,write articles
in detail so any body can understand and make improvement in themselves,they also become interested to attend NLP workshop , i think you will happy if people understand what message you want to give,there is no failure in nlp only feed back ,all the best for you will improve your articles or messages that will help people

By: Colin

Colin — Mon, 19 Oct 2009 02:05:06 +0000

Great stuff, Steve (commenting on “should”).

We can turn the viewer 180 with the word “must.” I must do, say, be……

Mike, enjoyed your insight. Keep it coming guys,

Colin

By: Mike Robinson

Mike Robinson — Fri, 16 Oct 2009 21:14:04 +0000

Interesting stuff about emotions as a message to be “read, interpreted and consciously acted upon”. I will use that distinction. Thanks!

So glad to see you writing about the dreaded “should” word Steve. It is also almost completely ineffective when telling others what the should or should not do. It sets up a defensive reaction. Much better to say,”If I was in your situation I would….” Then they have a choice!

There is a fun saying that I use, “Don’t should all over me!” People get it then.

Mike